Tagged The Ugly Side of Being an Attractive and Available Heterosexual Woman

Why “You’re So Pretty” Sucks: Being Mindful of Dangerous Beauty Standards

In the arena of beauty standards, a personal position is not available to me without admitting to things that are embarrassing; shameful; or even, in the case of “you’re so pretty,” a little vain.  Knowing this, dear readers, please understand that I speak from my own experiences with as much honesty as possible, owning the fact that I am one person among many.  In no way do I intend to speak for all women.  I learned already (from my makeup survey which I will publish later on the blog), that there are MANY different perspectives on female beauty standards and many stories to tell.

Disclaimers aside, here is one.

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